Frugal Meat & Cheese Tray for Holiday Get Togethers

Frugal Meat & Cheese Tray for Holiday Get Togethers

If your life is anything like mine, then you likely have a lot of holiday gatherings throughout November and December. Most of these ask you to bring some finger foods and a meat and cheese tray seems like a smart choice at times. It doesn’t require any cooking on your part. However, those meat and cheese trays you buy are the grocery store on the plastic trays are puny and expensive. 

The solution? Create your own meat and cheese trays for the holidays. Trust me, this will take you about ten minutes and you’ll save at least 50%.

Steps to Make a Holiday Meat and Cheese Tray

When I say “meat and cheese,” I don’t mean the lunch meat for sandwiches. I am talking about hors d’oeuvres. This is a dish that will be well received almost anywhere, so is a good choice to take for pitch ins.

Step # 1: An Amazing Tray

Your first step to creating a beautiful meat and cheese tray is to find an amazing tray. You have a few options with this and it might play into your overall pitch-in personality.

  • Buy a truly beautiful vintage tray at a yard sale or use one that has been handed down through the generations. The concern here is that you might go off and leave it, but if you are attending a family function it is probably fine. You can always get it back.
  • Buy a simple but lasting tray from an inexpensive store, such as Old Time Pottery for about $10-$20. You’ll use this tray again and again, but again you have to worry that you might leave it behind.
  • Use a cutting board you have on hand. The age doesn’t matter. The more beat up, the more character.
  • Go to the dollar store and buy a holiday themed plastic tray. The benefit of this is that you can leave it behind and you’ll only be out $1. This is usually my choice. If I can remember to take it with me, I do. But, if I want to leave early and people are still milling around, or if I forget it, it is not a huge deal either.

Step # 2: Buy the Meats and Cheeses

Even though you might be tempted to go to the deli area of your grocery and buy some really unique cheeses to add to your tray, this will run the cost of your tray up. Think about what is typically on a tray you buy:

  • Two types of basic cheese cubes (let’s say cheddar and pepper jack)
  • Summer Sausage
  • Pepperoni
  • Crackers

To make this even less expensive, I do a couple of things. Cheese and processed meats both keep for a long time. I watch for sales. For example, I recently got blocks of cheese for $2.00 each, little beef sausage links for $4.99 for a package (I’ll use it twice for this) and pepperoni’s for $1.99. I did pay full price for some Ritz crackers, because I didn’t plan ahead on those, but you can catch these on sale or use a different type of cracker.

Step # 3: Prepping the Cheese

Since you’ll be buying blocks to save money, you’ll need to cut the cheese. One key to making this dish stretch is to not cut hunks of cheese. Instead, cut into small cubes. You may even be able to use the cheese more than once as I did and stretch your money further. If you have leftovers, you family can always eat the cheese as snacks.

Step # 4: Place on Tray in Zones

Someone I know told me they like to buy the trays at the store because the meat and cheese is “arranged so nicely.” I hope all of my very frugal readers are aware that no one really cares all that much. As soon as the first couple of people take pieces off of that tray, it is no longer neat anyway.

However, you can certainly arrange your tray nicely. Figure out zones for cheese, meat, and crackers. What I do is I first outline the zones. So, if I want say cheddar cheese in one zone, I outline the shape I want with cubes. Then, I fill it in. And so on. 

I think it looks nice enough. People eat it, so that’s the main thing. If you want to get really fancy, you can buy some gorgeous toothpicks with red and green decorations and stick them into the cheese cubes. That can add a lot of interest for not a lot more money (especially if you buy them on clearance at the end of the season and save them for the next year).

BTW, please don’t place the crackers on the tray until you get there. They will get soggy. What I like to do is grab a couple of sleeves of Ritz and put them on the tray without opening them. Then, when I get there, I just open and spread onto the tray. 

My estimate on the cost of this frugal pitch-in dish is $8.50 (plus $1 if you leave a throwaway tray behind). The last time I checked, a small tray like this at the store was $14.99 and my tray was much larger. 

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Long Distance Relationship Advice

Long Distance Relationship Advice

Long distance relationships are hard. Not only do you grieve for the time you could spend with the other person if they were near, but worries and insecurities can easily set in.

  1. Use your time on the phone or video chat for quality time. This means avoiding arguments and heavy discussions for now.
  2. Talk about what you each expect. Do you want to talk every day? Do you expect the other person to come visit on your birthday? Talking out these things now will help avoid misunderstandings later.
  3. Make a plan for the future. If you plan to be with the other person long term, then at some point you are going to have to live in the same place. When might this happen for the two of you? Who will move? What is the timeline?
  4. Understand the distance is temporary. It won’t last forever, but if you handle the separation in the right way, your relationship might.

Statistically, long distance relationships don’t always work out. That doesn’t mean they never do, though. Only you know your relationship and whether it can survive not being together for long periods of time.

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Questions to Get to Know a Love Interest

Questions to Get to Know a Love Interest

If you’ve talked to me very much at all, then you know that I am a big proponent of testing your dates and seeing if the person is compatible with you or not. There are certain questions you should ask to get to know someone and see if a relationship can or should develop.

I’m not talking about playing games here. I’m talking about good, honest, and frank discussions where you ask your date questions to see if you have similar views on things like religion, children, family, and politics. While the other person’s answers might not be a deal breaker, you will quickly discover what you can and can’t live with.
<h2>Getting to Know You Questions</h2>
<ol>
<li>What are your goals for the next five years?</li>
<li>Tell me about your family…</li>
<li>Is there anyone you hate? (their answer will tell you a lot about how grace-filled they are)</li>
<li>What is your biggest dream?</li>
<li>Do you want children one day?</li>
<li>Do you go to church? Where? How often? Why?</li>
<li>Are you involved in any nonprofits? Why?</li>
<li>What are your hobbies?</li>
<li>Where is the last place you went on vacation? Do you like to travel?</li>
<li>Do you have any pets? Are there any types of pets you don’t like?</li>
</ol>
Yes, these questions might seem intrusive at first, but if you work them into the normal course of a conversation by sharing your own thoughts, they should flow naturally. For example, you might share that you have a sister who is one year young that you are very close to and then say, “Tell me about your family…”

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